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Men DO NOT Have a ‘Feminine Side’!

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It is about time the world stopped insulting men (and God) by saying they have a ‘feminine side’! Women (natural women) have a feminine side. Men (natural men) do not. Men are men and women are women, that is if they are naturally born so. (It is irksome to have to say that).

The idea that men have a ‘feminine side’ helps homosexuals, and their multiple sub-brands, to claim men can change into women (so-called ‘trans’). This is why Christians MUST oppose this kind of derogatory claim. It is derogatory because it allows for men to be effeminate. So, saying they have a ‘feminine side’ is used as a stepping stone from reality to fantasy, truth to deception.

What so many call a ‘feminine side’ today is nothing but God-designed emotional roundness. God did NOT create men to somehow fudge around on the edges with feminine traits! The idea is just ludicrous… and insulting. If it were true, why is it that women are not said to have a ‘masculine side’? It is true that a lot of lesbians portray themselves as male, and even adopt a persona and physical look that is rather ugly. But, this is bad choice, not God-created womanhood. And no-one says anything! I find it crazily odd and alarming that Christians so readily hand-over God-created traits and looks etc., just to go along with homosexual lies and deception.

Men were created first, and woman created afterwards to keep the man company, with man being the leader. Women have their own unique and wonderful role, which includes having children and looking after the home. Today, because of the way people are forced into monetary troubles, married couples have to both work. Thus, both should share responsibilities for their homes. Raising children, cleaning and maintaining the home, are part of this.

Though (most) modern men share these things with their wives, this in no way gives them a share of feminine attributes. It is just men doing chores in the home. It does NOT mean they are thereby sharing feminine traits!

Men are men. Women are women! They are different but complementary. It takes both of them to make up a family unit. Two of the same sex are not a God-given family unit, but are in opposition to what God designed. (To repeat – men born ‘that way’ and women born ‘that way’! Both are unique and don’t share their biology).

So, a man is created to be head of the home and spiritual care of the family. By family I mean a naturally born male and female who have children. The female, wife, is the designated helper of the male. In order for this to work, men and women have their own unique characters and personalities. Their feelings, too, are unique to their sex. Women, when living as they ought and not in sexual sin, are the perfect ‘other half’ needed in a marriage (man and woman). When men and women are not married but live together (an easy way to have illicit sex without taking on the responsibility), the family is ‘out’ by several degrees! And same sex ‘marriages’ are fake, being unable to comply with what a marriage really needs – the input by both a natural male and a natural woman – nor can they raise children in a godly or natural manner. Nor do they ‘love’ each other.

A man who adopts a feminine trait is not acting in a godly manner and should be rebuked and led back to truth and what God created him to be. His male attributes are distinctly male, which is why children left to their own devices tend to act out their sex… boys tend to play with guns or act out roughly, girls play with dolls and are more gentle. Only when they are influenced by adults do they get ‘confused’ or act in a way not consistent with how God created them. Thus, today, many boys are subtly (and sometimes grotesquely and openly) taught to have a ‘feminine side’. This is to be condemned. It is NOT about playing at war or playing with dolls… it is about staying true to their respective created natures.

So, when a man shows feelings, it is because those feelings were created alongside his physical differences. They are NOT ‘feminine’ but male. Otherwise we end up with all the absurdities now found in the ever-growing homosexual movement, where men have to kick down the barriers of a taboo set by God, and then pretend it is their ‘nature’. No, it has been developed over time so as to accommodate a sexual sin. The man can wear the uniform of an army general, but if he has never been in the army, his outer façade will be fake and useless. The biological man who lives and acts like a man will fulfil what God intended for him. He will be naturally aggressive and assertive when needed to be, without being violent. He will make decisions that suit his wife and family. All in a manly way – NOT with a ‘feminine side’.

His emotions will be those of an adult male and not those copied from women by homosexuals. I have seen grown men break down in floods of tears when they try to move away from their created character, and become over-emotional. This is the result of deliberately moving towards sexual sin, and may easily be the result of pretending to be male and yet acting out female parts. In this way they build up an increasing imbalance of mind, so break down easily. I find such men annoying and embarrassing, as well as sinful.

There is so much more I could say, but the point of this paper is simply to show that men do NOT have a ‘feminine side’. Those who grow up as natural males merely have emotions built into them by God. They are not ‘feminine’ therefore, but just how God made them, with balanced emotions and feelings, not prone to the softer and more labile emotions of women.

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