Many parents of 'gay' children hate what their child has become, even though they love them as offspring.
The heart break, pain, turmoil and anguish when your child chooses to reject God's way and follow a life of sin is an almost unbearable trial. When a child or adult accepts the lie that they are homosexual, when we are all born hetrosexual, a vortex of self-destruction to the indivdidual starts with huge collateral damage to the parents, family and church as an integral consequence. (Huffpost, 16 October 2014, 7 January 2013)
No Christian parent can deny this, nor should they. Suicide and immorality are part and parcel of the 'gay' circle.
As I keep saying, there is NO GOOD THING IN HOMOSEXUALITY. It stands completely condemned by our Holy Lord, Who warns that an unrepentant homosexual is heading for hell. So, they KNOW in advance. Any parent who refuses to broach this with a perverse son or daughter is doing no favours, and, indeed, even points the finger of blame back at themselves. They might love their child but they must also condemn their sins, because it is far better for the child to come to such a hard place here on earth than to face the result in hell.
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God." (1 Cor 6: 9-10)