Do you join with the ungodly? Do your pursuits involve you in being as one with wicked men and women? If so, it is the wicked who badly affect the Christian… the Christian will not affect the wicked by his presence. No Christian should mix with the wicked, because his soul will be tarnished by the sinfulness of his fellows. This is what Psalm One teaches us, with both a warning and an assurance. The Psalm is quite forthright in its judgment. Read and beware!
Verses 1&2
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Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.
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But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
Keeping apart from the unsaved is not just a command or warning. When a Christian refuses to join with them, he is actually “blessed”, ‘esher. That is, he will know happiness or the blessedness of God. In full it means the man will be happy because God will give him many rewards and benefits. This is because the man “walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly”.
From my own experience I know that when I have been amongst the unsaved, even for work purposes, I felt tainted and uncomfortable. I know I ought not be with them, even if it is temporary. In my work I used to be amongst my employees for only as long as I needed to be. I did not join them in their unsavoury conversations, their lewd jokes, their foul language, their descriptions of unsaved activities, nor did I join them after our work. I kept well away because I did not wish to have my life tarnished with their sin. If I joined them and mingled freely with them, I know that their sin would become my own, even if I did not wish it to be so. By remaining amongst them I would be complicit in their sins, and even their wickedness, and so my own spiritual life would be compromised badly, dragging my soul down to the pit, where these unsaved belong and have their thoughts and actions.
This is underpinned by the root of ‘blessed’, ‘ashar, meaning to ‘go straight’, to advance or to make progress, to ‘set right’. The man who determines to do only what God says and does not mix with the ungodly, is ‘walking a straight path’ - that is, he is right with God. Any other path is ungodly, not acceptable to God. Any Christian who thinks he can mix with the ungodly without penalty, is deluded. When we deliberately mix with them our souls are blackened by their sins. The only reason Christ mixed with the unsaved was to preach the Gospel! If He had stayed with them for any other reason, He would have become sinful, as they were, just by being with them. (This was, of course, not possible).